should duck hunting come before me in our relationship?

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for example, my brother was put on life support and I have been pretty scared, but my boyfriend decided to go hunting this weekend anyway because "duck hunting always come first" were his exact words. Also, I HAVE gone hunting with him before and enjoy doing it so I'm not being a whiny brat. even after sex he says "shooting a duck still feels better". btw we are in college