should i ask this girl i like about all the rumors their telling me about her?

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so i gave her a gift and then they started trowing rumors at my face about her.
this is the question of how she took the whole gift: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj4FHrBfuqDmr9yWMpJ5Qwvsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091218203205AApTzfC
i all ready tol her i like her and i gave her a gift for christmas that cost $120. it was in a big Elmo bag and she said o my god you didnt have to get me anything. i told her i know i didnt have but i want it to. so i gave it to her and she hug me and said thank you. i told her it's christmas gift, i hope you like it, and merry christmas. she said you too and hug me againg and thank me and then we said bye to each other. i would really want to have serious relationship with her but some bull **** is starting. so i told this one of my friends a while ago that i like her and she said she will help me out. i told her about the gift and she told me "she don't deserve that" "she talks too much ****" and that she over heard her the girl saying "that she had a man" and when i ask her who she told that she said "oh idk someone" then the next day she went and told her bff the whole story. lately they been known for talking ****. and then the bff and my friend came to my locker and the bff said that the girl had a boyfriend in Denver and we live in chicago. that she would treat the guy so bad. that she be flirting with a lot of guys. She doesn't appear to be what she is. now both of my "friends" are telling a lot of people. both of my "friends" are like really cool and always talking to the girl. but im say to my self if they dont like her why even bother talking to her?

so i want to tell her that i really like her and would really want something serious but don't want her to be playing me or ask her if all this things are true?
so if i have something serious with the girl how should i ask her about this?

to tell you that true don't believe and don't want to believe it but they keep saying and saying this.
 
unlike the other girl i did read your story and your little friends MUST be fake . theey smile in her facee and say stuff wheen theey walk away . your friends need to step out of your love lifee and get a life of there own . they either dont like the girl or they are probably just trying to get you mad and not want to go out with her . ask the girl her self and if she says no , then ask her out and yourr life ill be a it is
 
Sounds like the girl you asked for help has a crush on you.
Girls tend to say things like that when their jealous that your giving someone who, sorry if it sounds mean, might not want to give you the time of day an expensive gift when they are right there trying to show you they care
If shes throwing you signals, which you should watch for, then maybe thats why shes telling you there are "rumors" going around...
So keep an eye on how your friend treats you and make sure shes not crushing on you
If she has a bf... sry but thats not gonna stop her from liking you. So.. if ur friend doesnt

My advice dont confront the other girl about the rumors
that just pisses us off
as the other commenter said rumors are called rumors for a reason
Its all heresay
 
from the parts i understood of ur story, i'd say ask her about the rumors. but don't accuse her! you'll never have a serious relationship that way. just gently ask her (if that makes any sense lol)
someone please answer mine! i need to know!!!!!!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091219225222AAeIUN5
 
I didn't bother to read your "Story" butt rumors are rumors. You should always confront a person when you have the need to.
 
All i can say is, rumors are called rumors for a reason.
Talk to her about it, thats the only way you'll know..

Mine please (I need a guys help)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AogeS2eDZfveATVpHj.nuZ7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091219221249AAU7qWE
 
yeah but ask her nicely
i say you tell her how you feel NO matter what
but rumors are rumors ...usually


PLZ ANSWER SOS!!!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091219224923AAFQsom
 
Hello first I wouldn't buy a gift or someone I'm not dating or sleeping with, and if you ask her she will lie or come up with some excuse, and if she has the man in the Denver and treat him like this, imaging what she will do to you if she goes out of town, she knows you spent alot of money on her and she didn't even kiss you, she's looking at you as a easy meal ticket, since you mention lockers you sound young and you have your whole life ahead to fall for girls give up on this one, i'm a girl and if i see a sucker spending money like that I didn't kiss him, I'm going to milk it and tell you whatever you want, and you sound like a nice guy, so give up on her and I'm not saying believe rumors, it maybe true or not, but you won't know the real truth unless you talk to the guy, she will lie or your friends may lie, but the guy will tell you if she is his girl or not, I feel she will ie just to get more free items from you, find another girl without drama or bag, instant message me thatshottye, if you need more advice
 
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