I am a guy and I think I am nice to others. I work in a Hi-Tech company and independent.
I have met a girl about 3 years back. She is not a beauty queen and not very intelligent either. We had dated a lot. We are leaving far away from our home town now. We don't have common friends.
She proposed me first (2.5 yrs back). I was not sure at that time. Later she took it as yes as we continued our dating. I was confused too.
Now with time I have understood some points -
-> She really loves me a lot. And she cares me for everything. I think I don't show her that much respect back. In fact some-times I think I just ignore her. She knows it well. Still she loves me back.
-> She might have a good personality at office but not in front of me. With me she agrees on almost everything I say. She fails to show her intelligent flairs with me. But I know she is doing good at office and working very well where intelligence really matters. She is in business development of a hi-tech farm. But with me she acts like a dumb. This is strange to me!
-> I have not dated with anyone else in this 3 year period. But personally I have a feeling that I am having a detachment from this relationship from my side. I am not having fun talking with her much. And I think, in long-run I will not be comfortable.
-> I know she loves me a lot. That is why I was still not able to hurt her expressing what I think. I believe it is important to get loved. I am not sure if any girl in earth will love me back that much. But this relationship is getting a burden in my life.
Not sure what to do. Please help.
I have met a girl about 3 years back. She is not a beauty queen and not very intelligent either. We had dated a lot. We are leaving far away from our home town now. We don't have common friends.
She proposed me first (2.5 yrs back). I was not sure at that time. Later she took it as yes as we continued our dating. I was confused too.
Now with time I have understood some points -
-> She really loves me a lot. And she cares me for everything. I think I don't show her that much respect back. In fact some-times I think I just ignore her. She knows it well. Still she loves me back.
-> She might have a good personality at office but not in front of me. With me she agrees on almost everything I say. She fails to show her intelligent flairs with me. But I know she is doing good at office and working very well where intelligence really matters. She is in business development of a hi-tech farm. But with me she acts like a dumb. This is strange to me!
-> I have not dated with anyone else in this 3 year period. But personally I have a feeling that I am having a detachment from this relationship from my side. I am not having fun talking with her much. And I think, in long-run I will not be comfortable.
-> I know she loves me a lot. That is why I was still not able to hurt her expressing what I think. I believe it is important to get loved. I am not sure if any girl in earth will love me back that much. But this relationship is getting a burden in my life.
Not sure what to do. Please help.