inevoielaspreknow
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- Aug 28, 2008
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So I'm only 18 weeks & 5 days pregnant. The baby's dad wants absolutely nothing to do with me; he wouldn't even talk to me in person so I could tell him I was pregnant in the first place because he freaked out & assumed why I wanted to talk to him first... I haven't seen or heard anything from him. He blocked/deleted me off face book & his mother is the same way.
He was spreading rumors around about me, & denying he ever slept with me more than once. Even lying about using a condom when there is NO way that he did because I got an STD...
I decided that I don't want him in my life, or the baby's if he's going to be that way; the same goes for his mom. I'm asking for child support- that's it. I doubt he cares about not being able to see his child. He's acting like it never happened.
My mother & I aren't even going to let them know when the baby's born...
But now I'm wondering if I should say anything to him & give him a chance or if it's pointless? I haven't spoken to him AT ALL since he stopped talking to me.
I get an ultrasound & find out the sex at the end of the month & I'm wondering if I should let him know something about how the baby's doing... see if he cares now? I don't know... should I bother?
I'm not sure what I would even say, but I'm tempted to say something because it IS his child too- whether he wants it to be or not!
Opinions please.
He was spreading rumors around about me, & denying he ever slept with me more than once. Even lying about using a condom when there is NO way that he did because I got an STD...
I decided that I don't want him in my life, or the baby's if he's going to be that way; the same goes for his mom. I'm asking for child support- that's it. I doubt he cares about not being able to see his child. He's acting like it never happened.
My mother & I aren't even going to let them know when the baby's born...
But now I'm wondering if I should say anything to him & give him a chance or if it's pointless? I haven't spoken to him AT ALL since he stopped talking to me.
I get an ultrasound & find out the sex at the end of the month & I'm wondering if I should let him know something about how the baby's doing... see if he cares now? I don't know... should I bother?
I'm not sure what I would even say, but I'm tempted to say something because it IS his child too- whether he wants it to be or not!
Opinions please.