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<blockquote data-quote="Lisa" data-source="post: 1700372" data-attributes="member: 212434"><p>when my friend was complaining about her husband? The guy doesn&#039;t want to work so she has to support him but at the same time she is the one doing all the cooking, shopping and cleaning. He doesn&#039;t go places with her because he is embarrassed to be seen with her and has no problem telling her that (she is average looking) and for the same reason he didn&#039;t want to have children with her even though she desperately wanted a baby. He is not intimate with her because he tells her he is not attracted to her and the list goes on. The other day my friend was telling me that he doesn&#039;t want her to quit her job (she is not happy in that job) because his plan is for them to live off her pension when they are old. At that point I couldn&#039;t hold it anymore and I told her what I think of him and that she deserves better, now she wont return my calls. Was I out of line? Do I owe her an apology? It is very hard for me to see how she is being abused and not say anything or encourage to stay in that marriage. She has told me many times that she can not leave him because she is afraid she won&#039;t be able to find someone else so she has been living this misery for ten years.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Lisa, post: 1700372, member: 212434"] when my friend was complaining about her husband? The guy doesn't want to work so she has to support him but at the same time she is the one doing all the cooking, shopping and cleaning. He doesn't go places with her because he is embarrassed to be seen with her and has no problem telling her that (she is average looking) and for the same reason he didn't want to have children with her even though she desperately wanted a baby. He is not intimate with her because he tells her he is not attracted to her and the list goes on. The other day my friend was telling me that he doesn't want her to quit her job (she is not happy in that job) because his plan is for them to live off her pension when they are old. At that point I couldn't hold it anymore and I told her what I think of him and that she deserves better, now she wont return my calls. Was I out of line? Do I owe her an apology? It is very hard for me to see how she is being abused and not say anything or encourage to stay in that marriage. She has told me many times that she can not leave him because she is afraid she won't be able to find someone else so she has been living this misery for ten years. [/QUOTE]

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