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<blockquote data-quote="Motherof2" data-source="post: 18800"><p>My boyfriend &amp; I have been together for 2 years. He felt that we should take some time apart because we haven&#039;t been getting along &amp; it&#039;s due to trust issues. I dealt with abandonment &amp; abuse from childhood to adulthood. My father wasn&#039;t really around everytime he got married to someone new. I was molested from the age of 4 to 6 &amp; almost raped at 12. A boyfriend cheated on me the whole time we were together. My ex husband verbally &amp; physically abused me as well as cheated. When my boyfriend is out, I get so insecure that I start having negative thoughts &amp; I sometimes accuse him of things. Now my boyfriend had to deal with being abandoned by his mother, beat by his father &amp; a wife who preferred the same sex&nbsp; &amp; used by women. At times if I say anything to him during a normal conversation he misinterprets it, gets sarcastic &amp; shuts down. He&#039;ll say if you&#039;re not happy just leave then. He has been calling &amp; sending me text to see how I am. Should I just ignore him for now? I&#039;m confused.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Motherof2, post: 18800"] My boyfriend & I have been together for 2 years. He felt that we should take some time apart because we haven't been getting along & it's due to trust issues. I dealt with abandonment & abuse from childhood to adulthood. My father wasn't really around everytime he got married to someone new. I was molested from the age of 4 to 6 & almost raped at 12. A boyfriend cheated on me the whole time we were together. My ex husband verbally & physically abused me as well as cheated. When my boyfriend is out, I get so insecure that I start having negative thoughts & I sometimes accuse him of things. Now my boyfriend had to deal with being abandoned by his mother, beat by his father & a wife who preferred the same sex & used by women. At times if I say anything to him during a normal conversation he misinterprets it, gets sarcastic & shuts down. He'll say if you're not happy just leave then. He has been calling & sending me text to see how I am. Should I just ignore him for now? I'm confused. [/QUOTE]

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