Should I lower my relationship standards?

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I been with my bf for over a year now and this pass week I been feeling like I want out of this relationship bc he dont treat me like I want to be treated. I want somebody who will call me everynight and say goodnight if I dont get around to it (lately its been all me, if I dont do it we wont talk) If im going to cook for you everynight you come over ( And he is over 5 days of the week) I expect you to take me out to eat at least once every two weeks. I want you to remind me u love me or tell me im sexy (I model and im getting tired of every other guy but my bf telling me im hott)

Even when your away on vacation I want to here from you everyday so I can know you are ok. When I ask you how your day went ask me how mines went to! I want to do fun activities alone, not always with other couples or friends. I want to cuddle. I want a massage, I give you one why cant I get one every now and then. When we have sex I want to slow down and kiss more. I want a lot of things that im not getting...

I think I get bored with relationships fast bc Im never satisfied. Am I really asking for too much in a relationship?
 
i dont think your asking for too much. I think when people are in a relationship for so long they start to forget all the little things they use to do.

you need to talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, if that doesn't work you can always just stop doing the little things for him, for ex. cooking

and if that doesn't work then it time for a break up
 
No, I want this too! They can be so sweet at the start then after a few months their blah
 
Sadly, you are asking too much. Have you ever told HIM all this instead of trying to figure it out on your own? My boyfriend has lame habits as well. But whenever I don't like it or get annoyed with the lack of attention or what not - I make sure he knows by talking to him.

The thing about relationships is the lack of communication, you need to talk to him hun. I know he's a man, but be clear in what you want and with that, I'm sure any relationship will work out :)

Good luck!
 
HAHAHHAA you might as well jump into a typical disney movie because you are never going to get that, no matter what guy says "let me prove you wrong" and the fact that you added the-- (I model and im getting tired of every other guy but my bf telling me im hott) --
makes you seem a little bit stuck on yourself? Maybe he doesn't want to tell you because he doesn't want any more of your time wasted staring into the mirror, because you sound pretty sure of yourself, if you know it and you flaunt it... why does he have to tell you? I'm sure he couldn't knock your ego any higher than it already is.
 
too needy.

this is why..men don't like being committed.

i hope that man is cheating on you, sounds like it too.

If he doesn't even compliment you.
 
I think after a year, relationships tend to die down and people, more likely guys take the relationship for granted. You need to find the affection you once had for each other.

I don't think you're over the top, however, it is getting borderline clingy. Sit down and discuss with him to see what he wants.
 
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