Should I make an exception for a future step child?

calilover4ever

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We are getting married next year but planning already, he has a 7 yr old who is rude, and badly misbehaved. I am having an adult only wedding, but his mom said she needs to be there. She also wants her to be the flower girl, but I want my goddaughter, who is very well behaveda at 5 yrs. Is it too rude to tell her I already have a flower girl in mind? I don't want two flower girls, I want a trad wedding as close as I can get.
 
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