Should I stop hanging out with 'him' because of all the rumors?

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AllyF

New member
Ok, i'm 13.
And I have lots of guy friends.
This one is 16.
As far as I know we are ONLY friends, nothing more at all.
But there are tons of rumors going around that he likes me.
Everyone says we flirt like crazy.
It really kinda freaks me out though....
I mean I can't be 100% sure that these rumors aren't true either,
I mean I guess you say he flirts with me,
but it really depends on how you look at it.
Anyway, should I stop hanging out with him?
I mean he's a great friend who i'd hate to lose
but if he does like me then, then i'm officially freaked out.
 
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Jess

Member
You said he's a great friend who you'd hate to lose.
Don't let a little crush get in the way of it.
If he does like you, just tell him that you'd really like to be just friends with him.
It may be a bit awkward for a while but he'll eventually get over it.
Sometimes it can freak you out when a good friend turns out to like you but if you tone down the flirting (which is just giving him the wrong idea) and emphasize your FRIENDSHIP then he should get the message and find a girl who does like him back.
Sometimes in my, and a lot of my friends experience.. when he does find that girl - you begin liking him...
Good luck.
 
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Jess

Member
You said he's a great friend who you'd hate to lose.
Don't let a little crush get in the way of it.
If he does like you, just tell him that you'd really like to be just friends with him.
It may be a bit awkward for a while but he'll eventually get over it.
Sometimes it can freak you out when a good friend turns out to like you but if you tone down the flirting (which is just giving him the wrong idea) and emphasize your FRIENDSHIP then he should get the message and find a girl who does like him back.
Sometimes in my, and a lot of my friends experience.. when he does find that girl - you begin liking him...
Good luck.
 
J

Jess

Member
You said he's a great friend who you'd hate to lose.
Don't let a little crush get in the way of it.
If he does like you, just tell him that you'd really like to be just friends with him.
It may be a bit awkward for a while but he'll eventually get over it.
Sometimes it can freak you out when a good friend turns out to like you but if you tone down the flirting (which is just giving him the wrong idea) and emphasize your FRIENDSHIP then he should get the message and find a girl who does like him back.
Sometimes in my, and a lot of my friends experience.. when he does find that girl - you begin liking him...
Good luck.
 
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