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<blockquote data-quote="roz" data-source="post: 2297688" data-attributes="member: 137409">Yes, you need to tell her.&nbsp; You know why you need to tell her?&nbsp; First, if you don&#039;t it will be forever bothering you and occupying your mind, plus by omission, it becomes a lie, as you have not been honest with her.&nbsp; Just think if SHE did the same thing to you.&nbsp; Wouldn&#039;t you be upset?&nbsp; I think so.Just find a time when you guys have plenty of time to talk.&nbsp; Just share with her that there&#039;s something you need to share with her &amp; just haven&#039;t found a way to tell her as you&#039;re afraid that she will be very upset.&nbsp; Tell her that you want to be completely honest with her and that when you were at the young age of 18, you did something impulsive.&nbsp; Then just tell her.&nbsp; Tell her that you found it difficult to tell her as you were afraid of how she would react, but that you felt that a relationship as precious as the one you two have can&#039;t be built with something like this not disclosed.&nbsp; Tell her that the reason you have been having difficulty finding a way to tell her is because you care so much for her &amp; feared that she would leave you.&nbsp; Then be silent and wait for her to speak.&nbsp; Good Luck.&nbsp; I just said a short, but heartfelt prayer on your behalf that it goes well.&nbsp; Take care.&nbsp;&nbsp; Roz</blockquote>

[QUOTE="roz, post: 2297688, member: 137409"] Yes, you need to tell her. You know why you need to tell her? First, if you don't it will be forever bothering you and occupying your mind, plus by omission, it becomes a lie, as you have not been honest with her. Just think if SHE did the same thing to you. Wouldn't you be upset? I think so. Just find a time when you guys have plenty of time to talk. Just share with her that there's something you need to share with her & just haven't found a way to tell her as you're afraid that she will be very upset. Tell her that you want to be completely honest with her and that when you were at the young age of 18, you did something impulsive. Then just tell her. Tell her that you found it difficult to tell her as you were afraid of how she would react, but that you felt that a relationship as precious as the one you two have can't be built with something like this not disclosed. Tell her that the reason you have been having difficulty finding a way to tell her is because you care so much for her & feared that she would leave you. Then be silent and wait for her to speak. Good Luck. I just said a short, but heartfelt prayer on your behalf that it goes well. Take care. Roz [/QUOTE]

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