He and I met at work and have been going out every weekend now... we kissed twice, there is a lot of chemistry there (a lot) and we are very into each other. However, we have only breifly discussed becoming official. Our children havent met yet etc.
So my question is, is it deceitful if I don't tell him that I am active on a dating website? The reason I got on there is because I want to keep my options open and I have a lot of respect for how eHarmony works. It is an amazing website that I would recommend to every single person in the world if I could.
If I tell him will that motivate him to try to get serious with me or back away?
Part of me wants to keep searching for someone Id be more compatable with...but the other part of me just wants him. He is a good man... but again, the men eHarmony provides exceeds everything. I know this for a fact. So what do I do?
Sophia, I disagree. Any situation in which you meet someone new can be dangerous. There are crazy people everywhere... the guy Im seeing now can be dangerous as well. Its life, its reality.
So my question is, is it deceitful if I don't tell him that I am active on a dating website? The reason I got on there is because I want to keep my options open and I have a lot of respect for how eHarmony works. It is an amazing website that I would recommend to every single person in the world if I could.
If I tell him will that motivate him to try to get serious with me or back away?
Part of me wants to keep searching for someone Id be more compatable with...but the other part of me just wants him. He is a good man... but again, the men eHarmony provides exceeds everything. I know this for a fact. So what do I do?
Sophia, I disagree. Any situation in which you meet someone new can be dangerous. There are crazy people everywhere... the guy Im seeing now can be dangerous as well. Its life, its reality.