I've been dating this girl for some time,i am attracted to her but basically we argue more often than not.
It has been going on for about 8 months and it follows this pattern:we see each other, i treat her nicely because she is my girlfriend,everything goes well after wich she will start arguing for the stupidest reasons ,consequently things escalate and in the end she will give me the "we're just friends" speech knowing i'm not interested in simple friendship so i stop calling her and start seeing other people but after a while she will start looking for me and want to date.
This cycle has repeated 3 times,the last time I got "friendzoned" I just told her I just can't see her as just a friend and we should plainly stop seeing each other because being dumped is not the best feeling in the world: she said she understood.
This year I am going to spend my vacation in our summer house with friends(there are also many girls), the problem is I invited her to come with me before the last break up, frankly I'd do without her however she still wants to come and it doesn't seem right to uninvite someone.
I would like to maintain the relationship as a friendly acquaintance but should I just tell her it's not the case for her to come on vacation with me?
It has been going on for about 8 months and it follows this pattern:we see each other, i treat her nicely because she is my girlfriend,everything goes well after wich she will start arguing for the stupidest reasons ,consequently things escalate and in the end she will give me the "we're just friends" speech knowing i'm not interested in simple friendship so i stop calling her and start seeing other people but after a while she will start looking for me and want to date.
This cycle has repeated 3 times,the last time I got "friendzoned" I just told her I just can't see her as just a friend and we should plainly stop seeing each other because being dumped is not the best feeling in the world: she said she understood.
This year I am going to spend my vacation in our summer house with friends(there are also many girls), the problem is I invited her to come with me before the last break up, frankly I'd do without her however she still wants to come and it doesn't seem right to uninvite someone.
I would like to maintain the relationship as a friendly acquaintance but should I just tell her it's not the case for her to come on vacation with me?