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<blockquote data-quote="LostAdviseGiver" data-source="post: 20005">I really like one of my guy friends, but he has no idea. I decided the only way for me to tell him is to make a move and just flat out kiss him. We drink together so I can easily be in that kind of situation with him, but how should I go about making the move without making it akward or losing him as a friend if he ends up not going for it? And I&#039;m talking about how to go about it physically, I really don&#039;t need to hear about how I need to be carefull about losing a perfectly good friendship...cuz honestly if I can&#039;t have him in that way eventually I don&#039;t think I can continue to be his friend and act normally.He has no idea I like him, and I have no idea if he has EVER thought that way about me, but we have had convos about sex and his ex gf&#039;s, but nothing indicating to me he&#039;s super attracted. He&#039;s really hard to read, and kind of oblivious to girls (which he has told me a couple of times) and I have never seen him make a move on any girl while I&#039;ve been around him at partiesA couple nights ago he stayed the night at my house and we passed out on my couch together because we were both drunk. He changed positions during the night and ended up laying on a pillow that was sitting in my lap but i don&#039;t know if he realized he did. He got up in the morning to go to the bathroom and passed an empty couch in order to sit back down next to me...I should&#039;ve made a move but was too scared...and advice how not to be such a pu*sy??</blockquote>

[QUOTE="LostAdviseGiver, post: 20005"] I really like one of my guy friends, but he has no idea. I decided the only way for me to tell him is to make a move and just flat out kiss him. We drink together so I can easily be in that kind of situation with him, but how should I go about making the move without making it akward or losing him as a friend if he ends up not going for it? And I'm talking about how to go about it physically, I really don't need to hear about how I need to be carefull about losing a perfectly good friendship...cuz honestly if I can't have him in that way eventually I don't think I can continue to be his friend and act normally. He has no idea I like him, and I have no idea if he has EVER thought that way about me, but we have had convos about sex and his ex gf's, but nothing indicating to me he's super attracted. He's really hard to read, and kind of oblivious to girls (which he has told me a couple of times) and I have never seen him make a move on any girl while I've been around him at parties A couple nights ago he stayed the night at my house and we passed out on my couch together because we were both drunk. He changed positions during the night and ended up laying on a pillow that was sitting in my lap but i don't know if he realized he did. He got up in the morning to go to the bathroom and passed an empty couch in order to sit back down next to me...I should've made a move but was too scared...and advice how not to be such a pu*sy?? [/QUOTE]

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