should this be discussed? or let him have his space?

[Britt]

my fiance and i have been together for 5 years. he joined the military about a year ago and now is a marine. he used to be a huge player, and we even broke up for a couple monthes because of it. we got back together like 5-6 months ago, and he went to bootcamp i got to see him for 2 weeks and then he went to camp pendleton and he just got back thursday. well he seemed to have mature up, he even proposed the night that he got back. well right now we live apart, he lives in indiana and i live in missouri, about 4 hours away. so i drove up there and on my way back last night i texted him and he didnt reply which is fine because he was hanging with his brother, and then i tried to call him at the halfway point like i always do, and he didnt answer. so i kept driving and then when i was about a half hour away from home, i called to tell him and his bro answered then my fiance said hi then someone hung up on me. i got mad, and texted him so he called.... later on i was waiting to talk to him, but he said he was feeling weird, hes still trying to adjust back to civilian life, so i let him be, i got freaked out because i hadnt heard from him and when i tried to call, he didnt answer. so i checked his facebook to see if he had any recent activity, which i shouldnt have done. but he was emailing 3 girls. no flirting or anything, it just hurt because i was waiting to talk to him, i was planning on talking to him about it today, but idk if i should do anything to upset him because he is feeling so weird after coming home

 

[turtlergr8]

You should talk to him, hes your fiance and he should be able to talk to you even if he is feeling weird. If he is emailing other girl but wont talk to you, I would be pissed too, you need trust for a relation ship to go good, so talk to him and see whats going on with him, I bet he would be happy to talk to you. Good luck!