so ive been single for ever so realy like to have a boyfriend..i dont have a job or college and i think now it the perfect time to have a relationship that i can start and build corectly...so im 19 and i think i do things wrong when little things happen that boy will flert with me i get scared and do something to turn them down...and then right away am like shit why did i do that?and then my friend ''yell''at me why did you do that he just flerting with you is not gonna kill you..and i know but i dont know what to do to do not get scared and i thing when im out im sending the wrong sognals that im not open and intrested and all that..i dont know what to do cause i dont have eeeny expiriense with boys