Stepmom problem please help!!!!?

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Alex

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I have this thing called Borderline Personality Disorder which is nothing like multiple personality disorder. It makes you think no one loves you and you are super insecure of your relationship. It causes anxiety and you need reassurance people really love you. Okay so here's the thing. My stepmom has been my stepmom since I was 3 and she loved me. then she had her own kids when i was ten and started treating me different. I was really upset and asked why she didn't love me anymore. She really made me an outcast and emotionally started abusing me. Then she got physical but nothing serious. I'm 18 now and we had a blow up that ended everything. she lied and said she never touched me when she had. I called her psycho. I'm leaving out a lot of the things she's done. I love her still but they said I can't live with my dad and I am not even allowed in the house. I am trying so hard to change but she says she doesn't ever want a relationship. I miss my home and I just want a chance but she won't budge. There is nothing I can do and it makes me so anxious. All I want is to eat dinner over there again. It's been 3 months. Please do you have any advice on what to do to change her mind? oh my dad lets her do anything she wants cause he's scared she'll leave him. he never makes me a priority and he meets with me once a week but he won't talk to her. trust me i've tried everything with him
 
I agree with KRIS. Quit being such a drama queen! Show her affection. If she doesn't like that and you still live with her, run away!
 
Well -- I guess your mom (biological mom is not in the picture? -- Sometimes men are weak and they let their wife rule the roost and the kids end up w/ the short end of the stick. I frankly, don't think you have borderline personality disorder -- I think you're perfectly normal -- you've just been living in a jacked up environment and that would effect anyone. So don't let them put a bunch of labels on you -- you're father failed his job because he put his new wife before you -- not sure where your real mom is and your step mom is not treating you well -- THAT's the only problem you probably have -- there's NOTHING wrong with you! You just need some support..... Is there any other family you can turn to? Don't turn yourself inside out trying to make the step mom change -- taht's just exhausting and frustrating. Try and seek out some other family or your mom who can be there for you and give you the support you need. Trying to get it from people who won't give it is just a big headache and a big frustration. God will make a way for you! Check out this website. Pray -- He can make a way when there seems to be no way!

Look up this bible verse online... "Jeremiah Book 29 verse 11" :-)
It's TRUE :-)
 


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