on..what to do? Hi everyone,
I have quite a complicated situation....In relationships..i am usually very Independent,i break up, i move on..and it has never been a problem for me..Until i dated this last guy...and it was a horrible experience..Lots of fights..argument..he made stupid accusations and what not...he even stalked me...and wouldn't leave me alone.(we were together for only a month and half!) I told him word by word to leave me alone and he finally did..after a week of phone calls and messages.
Now when i meet new guys...i am really scared of getting to know them. I just recently met a cool guy and he said few things that were exactly what my ex said..but things that any guy would say.
I started comparing...and then for the whole night and day all i thought of what my terrible relationship and how annoying things were.
And now i don't feel like getting to know him or take the effort to get to know anyone cuz i am scared they will be as psycho as him.
It is soo strange!...I really hope time heals it..but its been more than two months already...any advice? Am i being too weird?
I have quite a complicated situation....In relationships..i am usually very Independent,i break up, i move on..and it has never been a problem for me..Until i dated this last guy...and it was a horrible experience..Lots of fights..argument..he made stupid accusations and what not...he even stalked me...and wouldn't leave me alone.(we were together for only a month and half!) I told him word by word to leave me alone and he finally did..after a week of phone calls and messages.
Now when i meet new guys...i am really scared of getting to know them. I just recently met a cool guy and he said few things that were exactly what my ex said..but things that any guy would say.
I started comparing...and then for the whole night and day all i thought of what my terrible relationship and how annoying things were.
And now i don't feel like getting to know him or take the effort to get to know anyone cuz i am scared they will be as psycho as him.
It is soo strange!...I really hope time heals it..but its been more than two months already...any advice? Am i being too weird?