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Tug of war arguing, how to stop it?
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<blockquote data-quote="MrJMan" data-source="post: 2445094" data-attributes="member: 741298"><p>Sorry this may be a little long but I would really appreciate an answer <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /> I never experienced this before - usually when my a girlfriend and I argue, we make up, and totally move on from it. With my current girlfriend, she would do something wrong, I would get angry, she will beg for forgiveness, I accept and ready to move on, but then she attacks me for being angry when she screwed up!</p><p></p><p>So then I say lets move on from this and I am sorry, then she will screw up something else and repeat the whole process over. This time we got in a big argument because her car broke down and she tried to blame me for it. I was fed up and told her that it is over between us. The next day her family told her she was wrong for blaming me. I took a week to make up with her. However now she is punishing me for taking so long to forgive her...</p><p></p><p>Before she would spend the night at my house 5 - 6 days per week. We had sex and everything almost every night. For the past week now, all she lets me do is drive a long distance to her house and sit in the living room to watch TV with her and her parents.</p><p></p><p>I don't understand how women expect men to do everything for NOTHING in return and be happy? I am wondering if I should bite my tongue and play cool for a while and hopefully she will become normal again and she won't have a reason to get back into a tug of war argument. If she keeps up this game where all she allows me to do is visit her at her house with her parents, I may tell her that I am going to get another girl who can do all of the things she is not doing for me. I am sure she will then comply, but then start an argument about me saying that.</p><p></p><p>BTW when we are in a good mood life is great. We learn new things, have a lot in common, we can have a great time just sitting in a car. People online say that there are great beautiful women out there with no issues and amazing but I dated a lot and never met them? I date really hot women but they are all maintenance so I am wondering if I should just stick with what I have since all women act the same.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MrJMan, post: 2445094, member: 741298"] Sorry this may be a little long but I would really appreciate an answer :) I never experienced this before - usually when my a girlfriend and I argue, we make up, and totally move on from it. With my current girlfriend, she would do something wrong, I would get angry, she will beg for forgiveness, I accept and ready to move on, but then she attacks me for being angry when she screwed up! So then I say lets move on from this and I am sorry, then she will screw up something else and repeat the whole process over. This time we got in a big argument because her car broke down and she tried to blame me for it. I was fed up and told her that it is over between us. The next day her family told her she was wrong for blaming me. I took a week to make up with her. However now she is punishing me for taking so long to forgive her... Before she would spend the night at my house 5 - 6 days per week. We had sex and everything almost every night. For the past week now, all she lets me do is drive a long distance to her house and sit in the living room to watch TV with her and her parents. I don't understand how women expect men to do everything for NOTHING in return and be happy? I am wondering if I should bite my tongue and play cool for a while and hopefully she will become normal again and she won't have a reason to get back into a tug of war argument. If she keeps up this game where all she allows me to do is visit her at her house with her parents, I may tell her that I am going to get another girl who can do all of the things she is not doing for me. I am sure she will then comply, but then start an argument about me saying that. BTW when we are in a good mood life is great. We learn new things, have a lot in common, we can have a great time just sitting in a car. People online say that there are great beautiful women out there with no issues and amazing but I dated a lot and never met them? I date really hot women but they are all maintenance so I am wondering if I should just stick with what I have since all women act the same. [/QUOTE]
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