enolagniyd
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rolls up on me .....? ok,I had just had the in laws down for ten days that reacked havoc on my marriage.My wife took them to the airport while leaving me in my bedroom and they did not want to tell me goodbye.For the next 6 days my wife was visibly upset with me.I had wound up raising our son for the first 8 mths of his life while I also earned 2/3 of our income from working from home,but my wife worked a 3 hr a day part time job.The baby never latched which devastated her and she was so tired and depressed I wound up feeding and changing him the most,then she went back to work and I and my son bonded very tight.The highlight of my sons day was when mommy would come home from work.However,at around three mths of age he demanded to be placed on my shoulders for 15 minute shoulder rides aprx 3 to 4 times a day.The in laws totally tried to disrupt this wanting to place him i a stroller which just made him angry screaming and crying for his "walks",which I tried for all ten days to let them do the stroller thing,but he demanded his "walks" with me anyway.The last night I raised my voice and said "god d@mmit just do what works!" after they had made him cry for 45 minutes and I took my son and took him for a ten minute walk,brought him into his mommy and handed him to her and said,"here a happy content baby".He was smiling and happy having had his normal daily routine.The mil huffed out of the room so I simply left for 4 hrs and came home at midnight their last night at our home,hoping they would have some class and respect our home.Instead my wife attacked me.I even went next door to my neighbors trying to prevent an argument but my wife came outside screaming at me and the neighbors,which is not a normal thing for my wife to do.Anyway 6 days later she was marching around the house showing me her anger towards me,and I tried to talk to her about it,and she started crying so I took the baby for a shoulder walk because my wife obvioulsy di not need me sitting with her right then.As I walked back into the subdivision an 18 yr old kid that lived kitty corner from me pulls up in his mustand ,pushes in his clutch and begins repeatatively romping his motor,waking and frightening my 8 mh old sleeping son.This kid knows I walk this baby and that the child was in my arms.The kid pulls into his yard and he and anther kid get out flexing their chests as if taunting me.I go and hand my son to my wife and pick up a large garden brick and hurl it into the kids parked car window with his father standing about 15 ft from me.They operate a roofing company and so 5 guys come out after me as I am walking back into the street so that at least I am not tresspassing when and if police show up.While i spend the night in jail my wife takes off with my son 1000 miles away and files an ex parte and tries to file for divorce.I file divorce down here first.This was 6 mths ago.I asked her tonight if she was planning on leaving me before I put the brick into the neighbors window and she said no.I told her I was more upset that night because I thought she was going to leave me before I took the walk with my son.Would you leave your husband over this type of situation?The neighbors used to drag race down our street and do not really do that anymore.I told my wife about that tonight about how it is sad to me how many ladies started walking their children on our road after I put the brick into the window as it gained respect for our street but I made the street safe for everyone elses babies but not for my son.
Would you have left under these given situations?I even have an affidavit from the neighbor lesbians that I went to talk to (we did not know they were lesbians at the time because the ladies husband had just moved out after living next to us for 4 yrs) that my wife had came over upset and that I said a few things to her but nothing uncalled for or out of the range of a normal argument.I just told my wife that her parents were causing our baby to cry and I left to avoid an argument.In the 12 yrs we were together I haqd never left for more than an hr without telling her where I was going,so I did cause her worry that night as I was hurt that she never stands up to her family for me when they attack me for the past 12 yrs.I told my wife I would never hurt her or my son,but I think she is just trying to save face to her mother.I don't want a divorce I was protecting my baby.Had I called the police I thnk the neighbors would have been vandalizing my home and become hostile,vs me going on the offense calmed them down
Would you have left under these given situations?I even have an affidavit from the neighbor lesbians that I went to talk to (we did not know they were lesbians at the time because the ladies husband had just moved out after living next to us for 4 yrs) that my wife had came over upset and that I said a few things to her but nothing uncalled for or out of the range of a normal argument.I just told my wife that her parents were causing our baby to cry and I left to avoid an argument.In the 12 yrs we were together I haqd never left for more than an hr without telling her where I was going,so I did cause her worry that night as I was hurt that she never stands up to her family for me when they attack me for the past 12 yrs.I told my wife I would never hurt her or my son,but I think she is just trying to save face to her mother.I don't want a divorce I was protecting my baby.Had I called the police I thnk the neighbors would have been vandalizing my home and become hostile,vs me going on the offense calmed them down