I go to college 3 hours from home, i met this guy over break that i fell really hard for. I slept with him the second nite of hanging out with him, i was drunk if that makes it better, he told me that if he was into dating he would aske me out but he says hes not ready for a relationship but asked if we could still mess around. i told him we could. I hung out with him 7 days and nites after that, the last week i was home i spent 4 nites in a row with him, 2 nites at his house, one at mine, then at his again. He took me snowmobiling for the first time, made us and all his friends yummy pizza, took us out to eat, we accidently got underages together, and took me to a dance clubwe hooked up 4 times the most times ive ever been with one guy. and first guy i was with sober, i know it makes me sound bad but its the truth, i always give in right away thinking a guy likes me but turns out they were just using me. other nites we just slept next to eachother and i really liked that. he would say little things that showed he liked me and did little things to, like he got sad when he couldnt sit in the back seat with me. his best friend told me that he really likes just that the fact of me being away at college is keeping him from not wanting to date me. the last day i was with him he didnt want to ride with to take me home and he didnt even give me a hug good bye cuz i was leaving the next day. i really like him but now he isnt texting me as much and i feel like he was just using me while i was home for that short period of time.