Wedding Bells or Just hopeful?

[BitterBlue]

Boyfriend and I have been together for three years close to four this June. When we went past a church he said he would love to get married there, he has been overly affectionate to me of late and has mention numerous times he wants me to have his baby.

However when we went to an antique shop so I could get a new ring as my old one keeps slipping off. The owner produced an emerald and diamond ring, My boyfriend stood back and said "No that's a bit to much of an engagement ring, I don't want to start a trend here."

I looked away embarassed that he said that and he then picked a small ring to fit my pinkie finger saying that a pinkie ring would suit me better.

The event has left me confused. It's like does he want me marry him (he has planned out things for us to do and mentions things of what we would be doing when we are older like say mid 40s/50s) or am I just turning the idea into something that I want and am reading to much into it?

He is 34 and I'm 25.

 

[Robert]

If he said he would like to have your baby and would love to get married at that church I would say he wants to marry you someday. The ring thing just may be he doesn't want to spend a lot of money. Nothing wrong there. But if you have been together for 3 years why can't you just ask him if he wants to marry you. You should have an open and honest relationship. If not then maybe you should consider moving on.

 

[Neena]

Maybe he's wanting to surprise you