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<blockquote data-quote="BeijosBeijos" data-source="post: 2426047" data-attributes="member: 831413">(&amp; we aren&#039;t interested)? This happens to me all the time, but right now it happened again and its always so awkward so I&#039;m asking. Guys scream things out to me a lot, like they say things to me as I walk by them or whatever. Right now I was walking to the cafeteria and some guy and his friend are staring and he and he goes &quot;MMmm Top model right here. Hey baby!&quot; because I&#039;m kind of tall and skinny, but I just ignored them and kept walking. Thats so weird to me. A while back I walked past a whole table of guys and one guy says to me as I walk by &quot;You&#039;re beautiful!&quot; and it made me so nervous that I pretended I didn&#039;t notice. Its just weird! Sometimes I&#039;ll smile at the guys, but then they always come over and hit on me and I&#039;m a nervous person by nature and I feel so stupid and awkward when men hit on me that I don&#039;t know, so I ignore them as much as possible. I&#039;m more comfortable with my guy friends that I already know when it comes to dating, not random guys in public.Sooo.... I&#039;m shy, but - I guess its because I&#039;m considered &quot;attractive&quot; or because I&#039;m Black or whatever, i really don&#039;t know, but guys seem to take me ignoring them as me being b!tchy. Thats what bothers me, I&#039;m not a b!tch, I&#039;m just nervous. Some guys even call me names for not responding to them and they always think I&#039;m stuck up.the guy who called me beautiful SCREAMED it to me, not &quot;said it&quot;, thats what made me nervous - I&#039;m not crazy or anything weird. I always feel like I let a guy down when he meets me because I may look pretty, but I feel like I&#039;m boring to guys I first meet. I never know what to say.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BeijosBeijos, post: 2426047, member: 831413"] (& we aren't interested)? This happens to me all the time, but right now it happened again and its always so awkward so I'm asking. Guys scream things out to me a lot, like they say things to me as I walk by them or whatever. Right now I was walking to the cafeteria and some guy and his friend are staring and he and he goes "MMmm Top model right here. Hey baby!" because I'm kind of tall and skinny, but I just ignored them and kept walking. Thats so weird to me. A while back I walked past a whole table of guys and one guy says to me as I walk by "You're beautiful!" and it made me so nervous that I pretended I didn't notice. Its just weird! Sometimes I'll smile at the guys, but then they always come over and hit on me and I'm a nervous person by nature and I feel so stupid and awkward when men hit on me that I don't know, so I ignore them as much as possible. I'm more comfortable with my guy friends that I already know when it comes to dating, not random guys in public. Sooo.... I'm shy, but - I guess its because I'm considered "attractive" or because I'm Black or whatever, i really don't know, but guys seem to take me ignoring them as me being b!tchy. Thats what bothers me, I'm not a b!tch, I'm just nervous. Some guys even call me names for not responding to them and they always think I'm stuck up. the guy who called me beautiful SCREAMED it to me, not "said it", thats what made me nervous - I'm not crazy or anything weird. I always feel like I let a guy down when he meets me because I may look pretty, but I feel like I'm boring to guys I first meet. I never know what to say. [/QUOTE]

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