What are some signs that a friend is questioning their sexuality?

BohemianRhapsody

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I'm asking because I get this vibe from a friend of mine that she might be gay or questioning. It seems like she's acting the way I acted a few years ago when I was first started considering the fact that I could be gay, but I don't know if it'd be the same for other people. So could ya'll give me some examples of how most people might act when they're questioning?
 
This is a hard one - especially if you are talking about a girl, since females often have a phase in their life where they think they might be lesbian/bisexual.
If they get cuddlier with other girls - i.e. im talking about while watching movies or sitting next to them on a couch. Sometimes they might quite like playing 'naked' games and 'jokingly' fondle another girl (since this apparently won't come across as anything more than innocent if they treat it like a fun thing).
They might often not talk too much about guys, if the subject comes up they might touch on it a little but would rather not give away any false impression (altho' this might only occur if they are more comfortable with their sexuality).
This is hard without knowing the person in question, but it might be wise to bring up the subject to her. If it is of quite a lot of interest to her she might possibly have some personal connection to homosexuality.
Best of luck there - whatever you do, don't get too attached yourself (if you are that is), because it hurts to find out that they might just be perfectly straight in the end.
 
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