JamieFrisk
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- Mar 31, 2011
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Before we met they flirted online. While we were dating they pretty much continued until I found out and we broke up for a while. When we got back together he wanted to still go on a trip to see her but he didn't, thankfully, and afterward She was removed from his contacts.
Well he recently re added her after another spat we had and he didn't remove her since. She just recently messaged him again out of the blue bringing up how she was sick.
He willingly told me and it seemed harmless but later he revealed that it was a little more than a sentence or two. It bothers me that he lied at first and I'm worried she'll keep talking to him and they'll start talking again..
It doesn't seem like a big deal but she's one of those girls that REALLY distract boys from their girlfriends to the point he's ignoring me and is much more anxious to talk to her than me.
He says they don't talk but I'm not sure I believe that, not that I will ever know unless he tells me.
So anyway. I didn't know if I should message her and calmly tell her to get lost or just let the risk of them re connecting happen.
I said it would make me feel better if she wasn't on his friends list but he told me that they don't even talk..so he wasn't actually willing to remove her. Bad sign?
I just really want her to get the message that she needs to back off since she has all the boys she could ever want yet she's messaging MY bf.
How can I do this without straight up cussing her out like I really really want to?
I want her GONE.
Well he recently re added her after another spat we had and he didn't remove her since. She just recently messaged him again out of the blue bringing up how she was sick.
He willingly told me and it seemed harmless but later he revealed that it was a little more than a sentence or two. It bothers me that he lied at first and I'm worried she'll keep talking to him and they'll start talking again..
It doesn't seem like a big deal but she's one of those girls that REALLY distract boys from their girlfriends to the point he's ignoring me and is much more anxious to talk to her than me.
He says they don't talk but I'm not sure I believe that, not that I will ever know unless he tells me.
So anyway. I didn't know if I should message her and calmly tell her to get lost or just let the risk of them re connecting happen.
I said it would make me feel better if she wasn't on his friends list but he told me that they don't even talk..so he wasn't actually willing to remove her. Bad sign?
I just really want her to get the message that she needs to back off since she has all the boys she could ever want yet she's messaging MY bf.
How can I do this without straight up cussing her out like I really really want to?
I want her GONE.