What do you all think my chances are with this girl?
Ok... So first off let me give you a little back story...
I just transferred to a university to finish up my degree. Its been about 2 weeks now since the first day of class.
Now there is this girl, who in my eyes, stands out amongst the rest of the girls in my class. This girl is taking all of the same classes I am taking which is pretty cool so I see her 4 days a week. Very gradually, I have made discrete advances in getting to know her better. I have had brief conversations with her, kinda talked with her and her friend, walked with her out to the parking lot, made her smile, and did my thing...... But here is where it got tricky...
What I have learned about her so far is that she is a very busy person. She is very organized and is a real goal oriented person who says the only thing she does besides school and work is work out at the gym. I have been very careful to play all of my cards right.. I dont smother her, I only sit by her when she comes to sit by me... I talked to her friend and made a good impression with her because I know the friends opinion matters to a girl.... I remain friendly and try not to ask too personal of questions when I speak to her...
Today, I got her number after asking for it.... That was the goal I had set for myself and I achieved it... Sept her body language is kinda telling me she isnt interested. She seems like the type of girl that is so focused on her future that she would have no time for a boyfriend... And to the best of my knowledge, she doesnt have one.
So what should I do now that I have her number?? I am kinda unsure about how convo should start with her if I want to eventually date her... I texted her today to ask about something class related and she quickly responded... Then I managed to kind of steer the convo to something I wanted to know about her. I asked her if she preferred to be busy all of the time and she just said she stays busy. So then I wrote her, "Ah.. So you are one of those....lol. Let me guess, you have alot of guys interested in you and you turn them all down because of how busy you are?"
After I sent that text she didnt respond... :/
I asked the question to find out if she had a boyfriend or anything so I would know if I should keep pursuing her. I hope my question I asked didn't ruin my chances with her.... What do you all think?
Ok... So first off let me give you a little back story...
I just transferred to a university to finish up my degree. Its been about 2 weeks now since the first day of class.
Now there is this girl, who in my eyes, stands out amongst the rest of the girls in my class. This girl is taking all of the same classes I am taking which is pretty cool so I see her 4 days a week. Very gradually, I have made discrete advances in getting to know her better. I have had brief conversations with her, kinda talked with her and her friend, walked with her out to the parking lot, made her smile, and did my thing...... But here is where it got tricky...
What I have learned about her so far is that she is a very busy person. She is very organized and is a real goal oriented person who says the only thing she does besides school and work is work out at the gym. I have been very careful to play all of my cards right.. I dont smother her, I only sit by her when she comes to sit by me... I talked to her friend and made a good impression with her because I know the friends opinion matters to a girl.... I remain friendly and try not to ask too personal of questions when I speak to her...
Today, I got her number after asking for it.... That was the goal I had set for myself and I achieved it... Sept her body language is kinda telling me she isnt interested. She seems like the type of girl that is so focused on her future that she would have no time for a boyfriend... And to the best of my knowledge, she doesnt have one.
So what should I do now that I have her number?? I am kinda unsure about how convo should start with her if I want to eventually date her... I texted her today to ask about something class related and she quickly responded... Then I managed to kind of steer the convo to something I wanted to know about her. I asked her if she preferred to be busy all of the time and she just said she stays busy. So then I wrote her, "Ah.. So you are one of those....lol. Let me guess, you have alot of guys interested in you and you turn them all down because of how busy you are?"
After I sent that text she didnt respond... :/
I asked the question to find out if she had a boyfriend or anything so I would know if I should keep pursuing her. I hope my question I asked didn't ruin my chances with her.... What do you all think?