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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Gr8_eye_D_a" data-source="post: 399453"><p>I was one of those complaining husbands at one point.  I didn't use to be but it happened and I didn't even notice.  It depends on how long he's been doing it.  If he was that way when you started out, then good luck on him changing.  If not, one good way to see it come to a halt is call attention to it.  Most men do not like to look inferior or fragile in any way.  Tell him point blank what's bothering you and how it's bothering you.  My wife did, and I started making a conscientious effort to not bug her with my complaints unless it was of dire necessity (kids, mutual bills, etc...).  That helped me because it made me realize a bad habit.  It helped her because the way she put it, the house was a little quieter.  LOL!</p></blockquote><p></p>