What does it mean if a committed guy says he is single, interested in woman for...

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sunshinegirlt

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...dating on facebook!? We've been going out for almost an year now and I LOVE HIM! We both are very serious! but he puts things like he is single and looking for woman for dating on facebook, in the place where you can edit the profile thing! He hasn't been very faithful before but hes changed now and I believe it when he says he loves me! Would putting up things like that on facebook mean something? Am I just a tease for him now? Do guys completely change and do what the girl wants to prove their love when they're in love? How can I tell if he really is in love with me? How do guys act when they're in love? I'm so in love with him that he is my weakness now! I know its not good! But please tell me how I can know if he really is in love with me! Only so that I wont end up disappointed later! Thanks for answering!
and the problem is i'm so insanely in love with him that i'm not strong enough to break up with him, i cant tell him the truth because i dont want him to get mad! i cant break up with him! How can I know if he really loves me? Can I test him someway?
 
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JasonM

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I do believe that as we mature we can change. However, in this case he obviously hasn't. If he is not able to openly proclaim his relationship to you with his 'friends' on Facebook and is 'single and looking', he is. Move on and find someone that will be open and honest with you. Best wishes and good luck.
 
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kristen

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It means that he doesn't want everyone else to know he is committed.. (I.E. In case someone better comes along or he's currently persuing others)
 
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Cassie

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That means hes a player. once a cheater always a cheater. No they dont change.. I was with my boyfriend for five years and he cheated on me with one girl promised he'd change because he loved me I believed him and one became three. So i know how you feel, He's not in love with you your more of a back up.. Move on. it will be hard at first but it will get easier and youll find someone better in the long run that wont disrespect you and will love you right.
 
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ok23

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its facebook it doesnt mean anything and guys never notice that stuff on facebook but if its bugging you so much just ask him why its like that...or ask him to change it. but it doesn't mean anything for guys.
 
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littleblondie

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Hey girl-

If he's cheated on you before, he's doing it again. Haven't you confronted him about this?

My ex boyfriend wouldn't put his relationship status up. This is because he didn't want people to know that he was taken.

This is what your boyfriend is doing- but he's being even more of a jerk and putting that he is SINGLE.

Dump him.
 
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