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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Haley" data-source="post: 2422264" data-attributes="member: 221293"><p>My husband and I made the choice together that we wanted children, but there are parts of being a mother that he can not choose to do in my place.  We want a second child, but I am terrified of a second pregnancy because of how sick I was with the first.  So yes, if someone asked, I would complain about being sick nonstop for 12 weeks.  It is also important to us to breastfeed and that responsibility also falls soley on me.  I don't think it is right to hold it over someone's head that these are the sacrifices we choose to make, but I don't think it is unreasonable to mention them when asked what are some of the difficulties women face in life.  I think it would be like asking someone to never complain about any aspect of their job.</p></blockquote><p></p>