mutual mastubation is when a man and a man, or a man and a woman, or whoever, masturbate together or give each other hand jobs
2 men= gay mutual mastubation
1 man, 1 woman= straight mutual masturbation
gay sex is when two men have sex
some people count mutual masturbation as sex, many other people would say that sex=penetrative intercourse, like penile-anal intercourse or penile-vaginal intercourse
who cares ! its the 21st century.
is people consider mutual masturbation as a gay encounter then phuck it. but i do think that you are pleasing yourself, not the other person, however, if you are getting off by watching him and vise versa then i believe that is a form of gay contact yes.