ebonics 101also, in reference to the "doing whatever she can to survive" comment, surviving isnt the main issue in that situation, especially for a guy. if a guy gets in the a** and does nothing about it, he can never call himself a man again. personally i'm white, fairly attractive and skinny, making me a prime target. i'm not gonna say i wouldnt be scared, but if a scumbag f***ed me he's a dead man walking from that point on, even if i had to go down with him.