Its embarassing but im getting really worried about my mom. Shes very stubborn and has a major procastination problem. She always tries to put off things all the time and Usually does things when you force her to or argue (that is even hard to do) she does things she likes. But usually stuff that she needs to do, she doesnt. My aunt (her sis used to tell us about this) i never noticed it til i got older and found it to be true. I only tell her thongs she needs for her own good nothing to do with me or for me to gain. Its only because i care for her. With all the sisters and brothers i have im the only one who cares for her ever since she had a stroke. It got even worst, she doesnt like to go places, cancels her doctors appts. Doesnt want to shower, brush, change, and groom herself like she used. I literally have to force her which works once in awhile but usually she think im fighting or abusing her and that im interfering with her life. She wants to fuck off basically. Its hard, i wanna know why. I feel like shes not normal cuz my aunt is evem older than her and she does the things she needs to do and other elder ppl i know. And she usually gets jealous when i tell about my other aunts or give them gifts and gets easily offended when i correct or try to help her with things. I dont know what to do. No one helps me. My two older brother thinks i avuse my mother, they dont evem care for her. I think she has some kind of disorder i just dont know what it is. Can someone give me advice. Please dont disrespectful answers. Im embarrased enough to ask here. I dont need your ridicule. Thanks for reading.