What should i say to make her stop pouting and whining?

[TurtlesSayRAWR]

The other day, I was in the bathroom with my friends Becca and Alexa and me and Becca got in sort of a fight. This is what happened:

Becca: "I threw up 3 times this morning"
Me: "Ew! Don't touch me! Ha ha"
Becca: *Wipes her hands all over me*
Me: "Seriously dude? STOP. Just Don't touch me. Its not funny."

Alexa stayed quiet the whole time.


So i went into the cafeteria and Becca and Alexa walked away to get their lunch. I then heard them telling a bunch of our friends what happened in the lunch line.

I didn't talk to either of them for the rest of lunch. But at the end of the day, i started to feel bad for ignoring them so i was going to apologize to them. When i went to Alexa's locker, she glared at me, so I decided not to apologize to her. When i went to Becca's Locker and apologized, we made up and its like it never happened now.

But now for some reason, Alexa has been pouting for the last 2 days and won't talk to me. (not that im making an effort to talk to her, ha ha) She keeps telling everyone im being mean to her and saying i'm p*ssed at her and stuff and turning everyone against me. Shes trying to be a victim when she doesn't need to be cause in my opinion, i did NOTHING wrong to HER. If anything, i did something wrong to Becca by snapping at her.

I honestly don't understand why Alexa's pouting and whining when i didn't do anything to her. I want to talk to her about it, but i don't know what to say. Should i say something like, "Stop being such a victim"? Or does that sound stupid?

(I know this sounds really childish, and im waay to old to be having a fight like this, ha ha )

 

[geezabeeza]

Simply be the bigger person in this situation, don't drop to Alexa's level by saying something like "Stop being such a victim", even though I can understand you wanting to say that right to her face, even if it's the truth, sometimes we just need to hold the truth back until the situation is resolved. Then you can have a proper conversation with her, and by this time, you'll probably have forgotten all about the event.

So just ask her what the problem is, and if/when she tells you, just try your best to sort the problem out without slipping your tongue.

Stuff like this happens all the time between friends, I'm sure it will finish with everyone smiling in the end.

 

[CharleyMiller]

Bitch is an attention whore.

 

[jiveybaby]

ditch her as a friend if she is causing you more good than bad