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<blockquote data-quote="JackFrost" data-source="post: 1536108" data-attributes="member: 489016">Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months, it was good until 5 months ago she told me of a bad sexual experience when she was 14. This involved sex with a boy who treated like trash and then being put in a bad situation where she had to give 4 older boys oral sex late night in a park. Since then she became very anxious and so she went to a counsellor. However, things have got even worse and her anxiety is out of control, which i guess is to be expected (things get worse before they get better?) The only thing that is bothering more than anything is something she told me last night. I mean she tells me all the time about hygene and constantly washing her hands and second guessing herself: &quot;did i just pour milk in my cereal&quot;? However, she told me of these bad thoughs she gets and yesterday after being upset she said how earlier on that day she went into a shop and suddenly imagined this old asain guy haveing sex with her over the counter, and &quot;kinda forcing himself onto her&quot;. She then said she didnt know if it happened and later in my house she didnt know if she went back down and did it again.Now the thing is that i was with her the whole time, except when she was in the shop, for like a minute. But after properly questionning her she knew she didnt actually do anything, but couldnt stop thinking about it.Now im getting worried she says she loves me and has never cheated but if she goes through these thoughts who is to say she might of done something when tipsy and wasnt too sure after?Or should i just put this down to her ever-increasing anxiety, to which she is very upset about a lot of the time?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="JackFrost, post: 1536108, member: 489016"] Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months, it was good until 5 months ago she told me of a bad sexual experience when she was 14. This involved sex with a boy who treated like trash and then being put in a bad situation where she had to give 4 older boys oral sex late night in a park. Since then she became very anxious and so she went to a counsellor. However, things have got even worse and her anxiety is out of control, which i guess is to be expected (things get worse before they get better?) The only thing that is bothering more than anything is something she told me last night. I mean she tells me all the time about hygene and constantly washing her hands and second guessing herself: "did i just pour milk in my cereal"? However, she told me of these bad thoughs she gets and yesterday after being upset she said how earlier on that day she went into a shop and suddenly imagined this old asain guy haveing sex with her over the counter, and "kinda forcing himself onto her". She then said she didnt know if it happened and later in my house she didnt know if she went back down and did it again. Now the thing is that i was with her the whole time, except when she was in the shop, for like a minute. But after properly questionning her she knew she didnt actually do anything, but couldnt stop thinking about it. Now im getting worried she says she loves me and has never cheated but if she goes through these thoughts who is to say she might of done something when tipsy and wasnt too sure after? Or should i just put this down to her ever-increasing anxiety, to which she is very upset about a lot of the time? [/QUOTE]

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