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Message: <blockquote data-quote="ChristineCox" data-source="post: 2442163" data-attributes="member: 837574">well its getting a bit too close, call her up ask her for a definite answer and if she doesn't give one make plans without her in them, she needs to respect your need to make plans and if she doesn't do it she cant expect you to put off other people till the last minute (they say they are ok with waiting but they really are not) ask her and if no answer, make plans for christmas and she will have to fit round your plans. good luck <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" />edit: then make your own plans and your husband can tag along when he feels like making his family a priority over his sister.</blockquote>