What to do If your girl cheats on you?

KalvinP

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People I need your help, my girlfriend has just cheated on me for the past few weeks and I don't know what I want to do. I cheated on her too and I told her. But I did cheat and her and stay with the other girl. I realize what I did was wrong by myself. I can't believe she doesn't see what she did is a horrible thing. I still want to be with her. She didn't have sex with him, she saving for marriage so I know she won't do it. Shes a high school senior im a college freshmen. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said she doesn't know. She said that shes not ready to be committed. Does she want to date for fun or I don't know. But she did say that one day she would still want to be with me I really don't know what to do but I still care for her a lot. Every time I try to talk to her she doesn't want to talk. Or she just looks at the floor our does something else. All I know is that she kisses him and treats him like a boy friend. She still calls me in the middle of the night around 2-4 am. When I talk to her she still treats me kind of like her boy friend. She there anyway to try to get her to realize that what she did was wrong?
She said she wants to be with him because she could easliy break up with him but she can't with me. Shes basically using him for now. I wanna be with her and only her. I know it sounds chessy and ignorant of me but thats how much I care. There are other people. But how can I give on someone that is always on my mind everyday.
JK 987
We have been together for 1 year 5 months I cheated on her when we were together for 9 months and told soon after. I only kiss the other girl once. But shes been with this guy for about a few weeks.
A cheater is not always a cheater people change and I know I have. Because I was once one and I know what I did was wrong and unacceptable.
 
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