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<blockquote data-quote="diana" data-source="post: 2185172" data-attributes="member: 216890">It sounds like vindictiveness and jealousy. A way of keeping control of your life and preventing you from moving on (if you haven&#039;t already). This ex still feels as if he owns you- which of course he doesn&#039;t. It will probably pass in a couple of weeks.It happened to me quite recently - an ex of someone I know wrote an enormous amount of e mails to me (after witnessing a row we had) giving me bad information about him. She copied some e mails he had sent to her about what he was saying about me. It wasn&#039;t really bad, he was clearly still trying to stay on good terms with her.&nbsp; At first I was upset and shocked, but then I went away and thought about it. What kind of person (in this case a woman on the pretext of us being &quot;sisters&quot;) betrays an ex in such a way? I know for sure he never said a bad word about her. So I judge him to be the better person deep down. I destroyed the e mails. It&#039;s not for me to judge what happened between him and his ex. Let&#039;s hope your friends bin the rumours being spread about you.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="diana, post: 2185172, member: 216890"] It sounds like vindictiveness and jealousy. A way of keeping control of your life and preventing you from moving on (if you haven't already). This ex still feels as if he owns you- which of course he doesn't. It will probably pass in a couple of weeks. It happened to me quite recently - an ex of someone I know wrote an enormous amount of e mails to me (after witnessing a row we had) giving me bad information about him. She copied some e mails he had sent to her about what he was saying about me. It wasn't really bad, he was clearly still trying to stay on good terms with her. At first I was upset and shocked, but then I went away and thought about it. What kind of person (in this case a woman on the pretext of us being "sisters") betrays an ex in such a way? I know for sure he never said a bad word about her. So I judge him to be the better person deep down. I destroyed the e mails. It's not for me to judge what happened between him and his ex. Let's hope your friends bin the rumours being spread about you. [/QUOTE]

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