Since we had our first daughter 2 years ago, our relationship is in trouble. We now have a 4 month old too and we're in even more trouble. We constantly fight. Our first has sleeping issues now since she got a fright from the fireworks, we ended up moving her back in our room even letting her sleep with us when she gets scared and let her fall asleep in the living room. Its been two weeks and her routine is out the window, she falls asleep at around midnight.
Anyways, the relationship problem has been there since she was born for about 2years. We fight about nothing, don't have time for each other, we're in financial trouble now too and we mostly fight about how we raise the kids. He's soft and I try to be more strict, I show my older one she wont get her way by crying and my hubby doesn't like it. I get to the point where I scream and get really frustrated, cause I feel I'm doing all the hard work... Housework, cooking, laundry, caring for our two children and trying to raise them with respect rather than spoiling them.
I feel that there is no space for love in this relationship, since we fight everyday. I don't know wether there even is love, I know I love my husbant deep inside, but sometimes I just feel we'd be better off separate.
What to do? Anyone had this problem?
Anyways, the relationship problem has been there since she was born for about 2years. We fight about nothing, don't have time for each other, we're in financial trouble now too and we mostly fight about how we raise the kids. He's soft and I try to be more strict, I show my older one she wont get her way by crying and my hubby doesn't like it. I get to the point where I scream and get really frustrated, cause I feel I'm doing all the hard work... Housework, cooking, laundry, caring for our two children and trying to raise them with respect rather than spoiling them.
I feel that there is no space for love in this relationship, since we fight everyday. I don't know wether there even is love, I know I love my husbant deep inside, but sometimes I just feel we'd be better off separate.
What to do? Anyone had this problem?