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<blockquote data-quote="Darius" data-source="post: 2304072" data-attributes="member: 270642">...for the future? I am kinda in a dilemma I have a girlfriend who lives about a 1000 miles from me. We have been dating for about 4 months and I love her and think she has potential to be a future wife. Here&#039;s where The problem lies its about $600-$1,000 every time I see her. I have plans in the future to own a business which I need to be saving for, I have about $1,500 on my credit that need to be paid, and my car could use some needed repairs but its nothing serious. All of this could be paid later because I&#039;m a working college student and I will receive money from refund check and income tax and I&#039;m 20 and receive about $600-$800 a month. I last time I visited her was in July of 10 and now she want me to she her in December for 2 weeks maybe a weekend in October and even maybe November. So if somebody could give me some much needed advice thats logical please nothing idiotic and no insults, I need a educated answer.Is it more important to keep making these costly trips and save little on the side or will this long distance relationship become too expense to keep up frequent visits? Which side of reasoning with the given circumstances outweigh the other?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Darius, post: 2304072, member: 270642"] ...for the future? I am kinda in a dilemma I have a girlfriend who lives about a 1000 miles from me. We have been dating for about 4 months and I love her and think she has potential to be a future wife. Here's where The problem lies its about $600-$1,000 every time I see her. I have plans in the future to own a business which I need to be saving for, I have about $1,500 on my credit that need to be paid, and my car could use some needed repairs but its nothing serious. All of this could be paid later because I'm a working college student and I will receive money from refund check and income tax and I'm 20 and receive about $600-$800 a month. I last time I visited her was in July of 10 and now she want me to she her in December for 2 weeks maybe a weekend in October and even maybe November. So if somebody could give me some much needed advice thats logical please nothing idiotic and no insults, I need a educated answer. Is it more important to keep making these costly trips and save little on the side or will this long distance relationship become too expense to keep up frequent visits? Which side of reasoning with the given circumstances outweigh the other? [/QUOTE]

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