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<blockquote data-quote="craigb" data-source="post: 2510082" data-attributes="member: 219635">There is a REAL reason mommy said to not have sex before marriage! For in allowing sexual relations before marriage, your friend TOLD the man that her only purpose in him was for free sex! There is no vow. There is no promise. There is no covenant of any kind. ONLY free sex. Even married, the relationship was established for one reason alone : free sex. It could be and still cannot be about anything else! For this was the ONLY thing they both agreed too! And for all sex before and outside of marriage - it serves but one purpose : SELFISHNESS!&nbsp; Since there is no other stipulated BOUNDARY about what the relationship was to be about or for. This is exactly how her husband now acts. Totally and completely selfish. This was what he wanted all along. Free sex. However, there are now a TON of responsibilities to go along with that selfishness which he wants no part of. Is this not the very definition of &quot;selfishness&quot;? This has almost nothing to do with your friend. It doesn&#039;t matter her looks, her bank account....nothing. That&#039;s because the whole thing was initiated on one purpose alone : selfish acquisition of his needs being met (at that time). The hinge is that our personal needs CHANGE over time. The needs of last year might not be the needs of today. And since this relationship was NOT based on anything to do with love, but on needs validation, the relationship is already doomed from the start. She wanted FREE SEX. That&#039;s what she got. Why does she want more now? In fact, it is precisely because she wants more than what was bargained for is the reason why it&#039;s all crap. Go back to what was originally intended (free sex) and there will be no more problems. Why do so many guys go for a mistress? Answer: For the free sex.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="craigb, post: 2510082, member: 219635"] There is a REAL reason mommy said to not have sex before marriage! For in allowing sexual relations before marriage, your friend TOLD the man that her only purpose in him was for free sex! There is no vow. There is no promise. There is no covenant of any kind. ONLY free sex. Even married, the relationship was established for one reason alone : free sex. It could be and still cannot be about anything else! For this was the ONLY thing they both agreed too! And for all sex before and outside of marriage - it serves but one purpose : SELFISHNESS! Since there is no other stipulated BOUNDARY about what the relationship was to be about or for. This is exactly how her husband now acts. Totally and completely selfish. This was what he wanted all along. Free sex. However, there are now a TON of responsibilities to go along with that selfishness which he wants no part of. Is this not the very definition of "selfishness"? This has almost nothing to do with your friend. It doesn't matter her looks, her bank account....nothing. That's because the whole thing was initiated on one purpose alone : selfish acquisition of his needs being met (at that time). The hinge is that our personal needs CHANGE over time. The needs of last year might not be the needs of today. And since this relationship was NOT based on anything to do with love, but on needs validation, the relationship is already doomed from the start. She wanted FREE SEX. That's what she got. Why does she want more now? In fact, it is precisely because she wants more than what was bargained for is the reason why it's all crap. Go back to what was originally intended (free sex) and there will be no more problems. Why do so many guys go for a mistress? Answer: For the free sex. [/QUOTE]

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