When my bf and I are arguing or having a discussion about something he has done why

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AndyR

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does? never admit he is wrong,this has been like this for 3 years. He will also when dealing with being wrong,tell me things like nobody likes me,my family and children think I am crazy. I had gone thru a bad bout with losing weight after my divorce and I went into a small pyschiatric hospital, it was not suicidal or anything drastic. my divorce was very devastating, well my BF brings it up and says I belongback in the hospital. I totally recovered I have always lived a productive life raising my children,this was just a small set back,I hold down a full time job, pay bills etc.and have had no problems since. Why do people do this? This is a 60 year old man who has been married 3 times, his own daughter does not stay in contact with him at all,and my girls call me everyday,why does this happen?Tomorrow is mothers day,and already he is starting on it about my girls. You did not get any cards,your children do not want to see you, I lve in Fl. they are in Ma. I can not stand this, my bf does not even work,what makes someone belittle another person who is very good to him.
 
its easier that way for him. To admit that he is wrong, is to admit that you are right. No guy wants to do that
 
He is clearly very immature and inconsiderate and not worth your time. No one should be putting up with anything like that! Tell him straight, tell him you aren't happy with how he speaks to you and your not going to put up with it. Get him out and working 'cause there's no way you should be paying for him if all he does is cause you grief!

Good Luck x
 
Honestly get rid of him he sounds like a jerk, he doesn't sound worthy of you, he sounds like a controlling, upset man who no matter what you do to try and please him it will never be good enough for him and that's his problem not yours. Find someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Do you want a happy relationship? or one where you constantly get patronised for everything you do? He properly is also very jealous of you as compared to him your a well off woman with your loving children and full time job. I mean no disrespect if you care a lot about him.
Good Luck ^_^
 
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