When there is an issue in ur relationship, when is the best time to talk about it?

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Me

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my bf and i have a lot of issues and these are the ones that we keep putting off for a long time.. especially since he never remembers.. so my question is "when is it the right time to talk about an issue" Is it right away? Or maybe on the phone during the week? Or on the weekend?

I just need to know when because my bf and I dont communicate very often since we are both busy with work and he is always too tired or usually cancels our "talks" Then the worst part is, more issues arise from our "poor communication" to the point where i lost track of how many issues we have and it gets overwhelming.

Please and thank you
 
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Ashley

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start fresh try to get along..then when your next issues occur talk about it right away since it seems like he likes to get out of it. but forget about the little old issues since he probably wont remember what he did wrong and look at the big issues. and next time a little issue happens nip
it in the bud or pick your battles and let it go
 
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sara

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The best time to communicate an issue is in the moment. Right when it happens.

"We need to talk" are ther four words my husband HATES! Our "talk" usually spins off into an argument about how long you can eat hard boiled eggs and why the fridge stinks because someone left buffalo wings. Or whatever random thing comes up.

I've learned.

If there's an issue, and it's happening over and over, wait until it happens again and then address it right then.
 
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Tess

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If you have these many issues
Then maybe you should,nt be together ?
You should never do this over the phone
Just say i need to talk to you
Somewhere alone together quietly and maturely
So that it does,nt lead to an argument
 
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