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<blockquote data-quote="MEHNAZB" data-source="post: 1509190" data-attributes="member: 306251">Have this little cousin who just always used to irritate me. Sure when she was really small she used to be cute. Bit then she hit middle school and in came the attititude. I started getting comments like &quot;yeah its only you I dont need to bother&#039;, &#039;your not worth it&#039; &amp; so on. And always had a come back for it, or just be like yeah whatever &amp; carry on. She used to do this infront of people,not like I really bothered. But then about 2 weeks ago, at a function at my place (as it was my sisters wedding &amp; had people over) she walked in and said &quot;It&#039;s only you, I don&#039;t need to bother greeting you, you not worth it anyways.&#039; &amp; later on said &quot;I am so much more better then you, who&#039;s going to marry you anyways&quot; &amp; I completly ignored it. After that I never bothered chatting to her or greeting her. Her parents where late to fetch her as they were at a function &amp; my mom &amp; sisters asked me to sit with her, said no &amp; walked away. They wanted to know why, told them&amp; completly ignored here,even though she was sitting all alone. Tonight went to her house, she greeted everyone walking in with hugs &amp; kisses &amp; when I walked in I just got a &#039;Hi Mehnaz&#039; in like a almost quite tone (not that it bothered me that I did not get a hug or kiss, frankly did not want it) and I did not reply and walked straight into the house. Never spoke to her during the entire evening &amp; as well as when I had left. THanked the hosts (her parents) and left.Had chatted to her brother during dinner &amp; then he had left to go for sport before we had left.When we had gotten to the car, my mum was upset as to why I did not greet, told her that I do not have time for people like her &amp; why should I greet her, for what? my middle sister who had then texted me saying she knows that the cousin was wrong but I could have still greeted &amp; been nice. My response to her was why should I still be nice to her when she can tell me crap to my face infront of people &amp; go around saying nasty stuff about me, she cant come and apologoze but I must still be nice to her? Had not gotten a reply.Why am I exptected to be nice to a kid (who just started high school) and think that she craps ice cream??? Who cant even have the decentcy to apologize or have any respect?? but she can give respect to all the other older cousins &amp; people my age?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="MEHNAZB, post: 1509190, member: 306251"] Have this little cousin who just always used to irritate me. Sure when she was really small she used to be cute. Bit then she hit middle school and in came the attititude. I started getting comments like "yeah its only you I dont need to bother', 'your not worth it' & so on. And always had a come back for it, or just be like yeah whatever & carry on. She used to do this infront of people,not like I really bothered. But then about 2 weeks ago, at a function at my place (as it was my sisters wedding & had people over) she walked in and said "It's only you, I don't need to bother greeting you, you not worth it anyways.' & later on said "I am so much more better then you, who's going to marry you anyways" & I completly ignored it. After that I never bothered chatting to her or greeting her. Her parents where late to fetch her as they were at a function & my mom & sisters asked me to sit with her, said no & walked away. They wanted to know why, told them& completly ignored here,even though she was sitting all alone. Tonight went to her house, she greeted everyone walking in with hugs & kisses & when I walked in I just got a 'Hi Mehnaz' in like a almost quite tone (not that it bothered me that I did not get a hug or kiss, frankly did not want it) and I did not reply and walked straight into the house. Never spoke to her during the entire evening & as well as when I had left. THanked the hosts (her parents) and left. Had chatted to her brother during dinner & then he had left to go for sport before we had left. When we had gotten to the car, my mum was upset as to why I did not greet, told her that I do not have time for people like her & why should I greet her, for what? my middle sister who had then texted me saying she knows that the cousin was wrong but I could have still greeted & been nice. My response to her was why should I still be nice to her when she can tell me crap to my face infront of people & go around saying nasty stuff about me, she cant come and apologoze but I must still be nice to her? Had not gotten a reply. Why am I exptected to be nice to a kid (who just started high school) and think that she craps ice cream??? Who cant even have the decentcy to apologize or have any respect?? but she can give respect to all the other older cousins & people my age? [/QUOTE]

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