I am not particularly looking for a relationship but seem to keep getting interest from men who are attached. I don't know this to begin with, but over the course of time they mention their wife or girlfriend. This has happened throughout my years from aged 16.
Two of these men fell in love with me and dumped their partner's for me although I never pressured them in any way or even asked them to do so.
I am and always have been very independent and always feel like I'm losing my identity in serious committed relationships and they never last. I have had 3 children and whilst I love them and wanted them I felt like a part of me was lost along the way. This then resulted in the breakdown of the relationship as I wanted more freedom and felt trapped.
Is it something to do with me? I have been told many times that I am very attractive and take care of myself and look my best and look a lot younger than my years so attracting men yes, but why married/attached men all the time? It's not like they are just looking for fling either - that I could understand. They are also usually emotional types.
I definitely don't look for them. I just have fun and chat and it's later on I find out.
Can anyone shed some light on this?
Two of these men fell in love with me and dumped their partner's for me although I never pressured them in any way or even asked them to do so.
I am and always have been very independent and always feel like I'm losing my identity in serious committed relationships and they never last. I have had 3 children and whilst I love them and wanted them I felt like a part of me was lost along the way. This then resulted in the breakdown of the relationship as I wanted more freedom and felt trapped.
Is it something to do with me? I have been told many times that I am very attractive and take care of myself and look my best and look a lot younger than my years so attracting men yes, but why married/attached men all the time? It's not like they are just looking for fling either - that I could understand. They are also usually emotional types.
I definitely don't look for them. I just have fun and chat and it's later on I find out.
Can anyone shed some light on this?