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<blockquote data-quote="Zach" data-source="post: 2225894" data-attributes="member: 212979">I think that you are simply trying to make them less mad @ you by smiling. By smiling and laughing, you are throwing them off. If on the other hand, you got mad when they got mad, they would probably only get angrier. But by laughing and smiling, you are making them less mad at you, because its a lot harder to get mad at a smiling, laughing person than it is to get mad at an angry person. I read an interview by 50 cent (the rapper) a long time ago and I still remember it. He said that growing up in the hood, he avoided a lot of trouble by laughing and smiling a lot. He said nobody really wanted to fight him because he was such a pleasant person to be around. Although, it isn&#039;t a foolproof strategy; just look at what happened to 50 cent! He got shot 9 times! So, I suggest you keep using your strategy, but also learn how to get mad and assertive when you need to. By laughing and smiling, its like you are spreading laughter and happiness into the other person&#039;s mind. Emotions are contagious and they spread like wildfire. Peace!</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Zach, post: 2225894, member: 212979"] I think that you are simply trying to make them less mad @ you by smiling. By smiling and laughing, you are throwing them off. If on the other hand, you got mad when they got mad, they would probably only get angrier. But by laughing and smiling, you are making them less mad at you, because its a lot harder to get mad at a smiling, laughing person than it is to get mad at an angry person. I read an interview by 50 cent (the rapper) a long time ago and I still remember it. He said that growing up in the hood, he avoided a lot of trouble by laughing and smiling a lot. He said nobody really wanted to fight him because he was such a pleasant person to be around. Although, it isn't a foolproof strategy; just look at what happened to 50 cent! He got shot 9 times! So, I suggest you keep using your strategy, but also learn how to get mad and assertive when you need to. By laughing and smiling, its like you are spreading laughter and happiness into the other person's mind. Emotions are contagious and they spread like wildfire. Peace! [/QUOTE]

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