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<blockquote data-quote="GlescaPie" data-source="post: 1970585" data-attributes="member: 718046"><p>To cut a long story short, i was in a horrible relationship a few years ago with a complete control freak.&nbsp; I left him four years ago and then lived on my own and basically got my confidence (or so i thought) back and really felt great for the first time in years.&nbsp; I then met a wonderful guy who i am now married to.&nbsp; Problem is though, i simply cannot bear when we argue about something (doesn&#039;t really happen often thankfully) or even if he&#039;s had a bad day and isn&#039;t in the best of moods.&nbsp; I end up getting so upset that i can&#039;t sleep, don&#039;t eat, feel like crying all the time and even phone in sick to work as i can&#039;t stand the feeling of things not being &quot;right&quot;.&nbsp; What&#039;s wrong with me?&nbsp; I turn into a quivering wreck when him and i have a row.&nbsp; He knows about my past and has been patient, but he did say that it&#039;s affecting our relationship sometimes.&nbsp; What can i do?&nbsp; I&#039;m sitting here in tears right now and husband is annoyed with me.&nbsp; <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f641.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":(" title="Frown&nbsp; &nbsp; :("&nbsp; data-smilie="3"data-shortname=":(" />&nbsp; Thanks x</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="GlescaPie, post: 1970585, member: 718046"] To cut a long story short, i was in a horrible relationship a few years ago with a complete control freak. I left him four years ago and then lived on my own and basically got my confidence (or so i thought) back and really felt great for the first time in years. I then met a wonderful guy who i am now married to. Problem is though, i simply cannot bear when we argue about something (doesn't really happen often thankfully) or even if he's had a bad day and isn't in the best of moods. I end up getting so upset that i can't sleep, don't eat, feel like crying all the time and even phone in sick to work as i can't stand the feeling of things not being "right". What's wrong with me? I turn into a quivering wreck when him and i have a row. He knows about my past and has been patient, but he did say that it's affecting our relationship sometimes. What can i do? I'm sitting here in tears right now and husband is annoyed with me. :( Thanks x [/QUOTE]

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