Why do most (okay I'm saying most because not all men are like this)...why do they become comfortable and just stop trying? My fiance has let himself go, he no longer works out, he eats like a slob, he's lazy as hell, he won't take care of his dog, he won't cook, he's gained 50 lbs...etc. Why do men do this? Why do they act like they are this or that when they meet you and then a year or two down the line turn into someone completely different? Is it that they think because they are in a relationship with you they "have you" and don't have to maintain themselves anymore? What is it?? Any ideas or advice? Serious answers only please! Thanks