Why do some guys complain they can't find a girlfriend, yet don't do...

[SwimGuy]

...anything about it? I'm SO sick of some guys whining all the time about how shallow girls are. YES, obviously girls are shallow; we are in our early twenties. So why not do something about it?

-I like swimming, but I don't particularly enjoy swimming 16km in laps weekly. I NEED to, otherwise I'll get out of shape, and no one will give me the time of day.
-People tell me I have a big nose, but I don't have a problem with it. I did use to hate my eye-bags, so I saved, and spent 5,000 to get them sucked up. And use moisturizer religiously.
-IT'S SHALLOW, but true! Sometimes I can barely afford food, but I've never been late on the payments of my sports-car. I eat nothing but ramen, but I don't have roommates, and I have this really nice apartment for myself.

If:
-Guys don't take care of their bodies
-don't get a job
-don't have a nice car
-don't have their own place

WHY DO THEY WHINE ABOUT NOT HAVING GIRLS?

I'm not handsome, I'm not lucky; I work HARD for the things I have.
No one calls me handsome, but guys call me "lucky",and I hate that. I do get a lot of girls to come to my apartment to make out with me, but it has nothing to do with luck.

-Some guys complain they get nothing but fat girls, but they are fat themselves.
-They complain girls don't want to go out with them, yet they have no job to get a car to take them out anyways.
-They complain girls don't want to make out with them in after-parties, yet they have no place to take them to, and somehow expect they are going to make out with them in front of other people.

What's wrong with them???

 

[JoB]

My question is what's wrong with you? There are plenty of guys who have all of those things, and are attractive, but simply have trouble talking to girls or are not seen as attractive by them for some reason. I know a guy who is handsome, smart, and kind - has his own apartment and car, but is just very shy. When he does get up the courage to ask girls out, he is often rejected, for reasons I don't understand. If you're successful yourself with women and in your life, great - but I doubt you are as successful as you claim considering you feel the need to come on Yahoo Answers and vent about how annoying other guys are. Why do you care if they whine? Like you said, they're not taking away girls from you - so isn't that even better for you? Let them whine and keep being successful. But I'll tell you one thing - no matter how many women go for you, it won't change the fact that you are a resentful, arrogant, condescending jerk.