My bf and I are both 32. We met when we were 16 and dated for a few weeks. We never slept together. Things did not seem to work out then although from the first time I layed eyes one him I thought he was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I was sad to let him go then but I got on with it and never looked back. Fate seems to have stepped in when 6 months ago we bumped into each other. Funny thing was that he didn't recognize me at all, but I knew who he was. We were around each other several times and he still never seen it. I finally told him and he was so shocked.. He felt stupid and was able to tell me everything just as I had remembered it. This time we hit it off big time.. We both had come out of marriages, mine 7 yrs and his 8 yrs, that almost destroyed us. The fire between us was unlike anything I had ever experienced and I thought "so this is what it is really like to be in love".. We use to have a blast at everything. We both have children and they are all teen/ preteen and get along fantastic with each other and with us. There is no problem there. He fell hard on his luck and moved in with me 4 months ago. Yes, I pay everything down to his phone.. I know how this looks and Im trying to tell myself that he is not using me. Last month he asked me to marry him. I said yes even thou I know it isn't what I should of said, YET.. since that has happened he shows me no affection and he doesn't want to have sex, EVER.. we use to be like wild animals.. I have tried to talk to him about this and found myself holding myself crying while he never even looked my way. It hurts and later he will just say he is sorry but nothing is changing. Im at a loss for words and actions. Im not trying to sound conceded but Im not an unfortunate looking person and have everything going for me. I don't wanna jump the ship if im reading into this more than there is. Is he using me?? Has he lost interest in me or is he possibly cheating? Please help me and please go easy but firm on me.. Should I go or should I give it more time and stay?? Thanks