its like she is leaving soon, she's not going to be my room mate anymore and its like she never says anything. i dont even know why, we have nothing to fight over?
i know its over-analyzing but look I live with her in a single room. I just want it to be pleasant? I cant leave now.
i don't mean to be a snob i just dont know what to say anymore. i start with such broad easy topics but i can be wierd too. she never adds anything of her own, she NEVER acts naturally its like watching someone act all the time
btw she is japanese. i know japanese people are quieter, but i dont think its normal i've talked to outgoing japanese people. idk why but i must be imagining tension. Thing is i avoid drama unless its 10% of the time. I dont understand why girls get moody at other girls for no reason. Even when i run into it now, it still shocks me . Still its wierd i've lived with a lot of room mates i've had TWENTY TWO. before when i had drama and conflict w/ room mates we discussed it it was so 'whatever'
Sure im quiet -now- and i can be a workaholic once in a while, but i really tried at first. i went with her to clubs on weekends, dancing, etc. Still its like she would only talk to me on the day we went out dancing. its like what the hell is that? How can that not make me uncomfortable? We ran out of contrived things to say to each other so fast. I'm not a goth i'm just whatever, in the middle somewhere average but i expect people to have oppinions i guess. and their own thoughts. And blabber just a minute a day is that judgemental of me? x_x
HELP
i know its over-analyzing but look I live with her in a single room. I just want it to be pleasant? I cant leave now.
i don't mean to be a snob i just dont know what to say anymore. i start with such broad easy topics but i can be wierd too. she never adds anything of her own, she NEVER acts naturally its like watching someone act all the time
btw she is japanese. i know japanese people are quieter, but i dont think its normal i've talked to outgoing japanese people. idk why but i must be imagining tension. Thing is i avoid drama unless its 10% of the time. I dont understand why girls get moody at other girls for no reason. Even when i run into it now, it still shocks me . Still its wierd i've lived with a lot of room mates i've had TWENTY TWO. before when i had drama and conflict w/ room mates we discussed it it was so 'whatever'
Sure im quiet -now- and i can be a workaholic once in a while, but i really tried at first. i went with her to clubs on weekends, dancing, etc. Still its like she would only talk to me on the day we went out dancing. its like what the hell is that? How can that not make me uncomfortable? We ran out of contrived things to say to each other so fast. I'm not a goth i'm just whatever, in the middle somewhere average but i expect people to have oppinions i guess. and their own thoughts. And blabber just a minute a day is that judgemental of me? x_x
HELP