Why does tobacco make me more confident?

IdowhatIcan

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Ok, so I know this sounds a little bit weird, but its true... when I am dipping, snussing, or smoking hookah I am more confident. I usually blush when I say something embarrassing or awkward, but not when using one of the above. I also say things that I would usually not say because I would normally be too afraid that it would sound stupid. And finally I just think quicker and seem to always have something to say whenever I use tobacco, as opposed to my normal somewhat quiet self. Is this what most tobacco users experience?
 
Because you are indirectly giving yourself 'permission' to be confident through tobacco. When in reality, it isn't the tobacco giving you more confidence it is your misinterpretation of it that is.

You are the only one giving yourself confidence, tobacco has no voice or mind to reason with. :)

You may feel unworthy of giving yourself confidence, so indirectly you are disassociating with the part of yourself that says you can't be self confident and allowing tobacco that role instead.

In Reality it is YOU giving yourself confidence the whole time...not the tobacco. Eventually, you will become very comfortable with encouraging yourself and realize that it is 'okay' to give yourself the confidence you desire on your own. :)

It is a way of giving yourself permission to be self confident through another medium other than YourSelf, because for some reason a part of you has been taught unworthiness. Most of us experience this while growing up. This is a false teaching.. Eventually, you will realize that you don't need that medium.

More and more today, people are becoming more aware of their own accomplishments and are beginning to experience Genuine Love for themselves without being made to feel 'guilty' about it by misguided traditions.... Self Love isn't selfish or egocentric. It encourages and lifts the human Spirit. :)

You've had self confidence the whole time but have handed the credit for it over to an empty substance. Get used to giving 'yourself' the credit for your self confidence from now on.... :)
 
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